Talk to Your Children - Your Words Matter More Than You May Think
November 22nd, 2008Working Dad notes this amazing statistic that he found at Thrive by Five Washington:
“By the time they are 4 years old, children from professional families have heard about 32
million more words than children from families living in poverty. According to research, 4-year-olds from professional families have heard about 45 million words…and those from families living in poverty have heard just 13 million words. This difference is critical when children learn to read.”
Somewhere most folks fall in the middle. But don’t we all see what a differrence our time speaking, joking, reading and just hanging out with our children makes? Working Dad goes on to argue that there’s even a monetary payoff, but he implies, too, that the deficit that children in poverty experience is reversible through Quality Childcare.
Working Dad goes on the point out that there is evidence that
“…shows how quality child care can help close this gap. Every dollar invested in high-quality early learning offers an economic return of $4 to $17 in everything from helping more kids go to college, buy homes and stay out of jail, according to Thrive.”
This causation link is flawed, and as a result, the economic return that is being touted is greatly inflated.
Some flaws include
- The true cost of “quality childcare” is much higher. We’ve all seen the difference in regular childcare and really great preschools. The workers are paid much differently and the adult-child ratios are lower in quality care, 3 to 1 more likely, rather than 4 to 1.
- Quality childcare workers cost much more. Adults educated well enough to bridge that 32 million word gap won’t be found working at childcare. They’d be working somewhere else making 2-3 times as much, or even far more. You’re most likely to get childcare workers that grew up in the same linguistically impoverished environment that we’d like to see eliminated.
- After the day is done, these kids go straight back home, where the problem started and continues. Here it all unravels. The same untalkative, poverty-talkitive environment, unless you count TV, which is abject poverty.
- Moral upbringing at home is more likely to reduce criminal behavior than a chatty teacher. Men abandoning their families have an effect by their absence as well as their presence. Parental drug and alcohol abuse and the strangers that come tramping through their lives do little to encourage achievement in kids living in poverty.
I wish it were like what these optimists say, but it ain’t. I’m not saying that education isn’t without its affect to lift people from poverty and crime, but the magnitude is not what is claimed.
Generally, childcare works little more differently than minimal care for the safety of kids while they’re parents are working. Good childcare is affordable only by those professionals who can afford it. It hasn’t been so long that I’ve shopped for childcare that I can recall the differences. The gap is enormous. So is the expense.








